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So sick and tired of all the needless beating
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Tuesday, September 17, 2013
All So Depressive
I just read up about Amanda Todd after seeing some posts about her on 9gag.
Cyber bullying, gang-up bullying, school bullying.
I had my fair share of these before. But none as bad as how the PERVERT that pushed her to the end.
Befriending her every time she moved to a new city and then spreading videos or pictures about her.. What a scumbag!
I have a past that I am ashamed of too. Even when it comes to nudities. Many girls suffered in the dark as blackmailers threaten to spread nudities about them. They became slaves to all requests.
Don't be afraid to stand up. It's much easier here in Singapore as bullied kids are taught to avoid becoming bullies themselves as they've been through them and knows how painful it is.
Know the strength of per individual. In public schools, people jeered at a single victim in gangs. If one person were to speak up, you'll be surprised at the amount of people who felt like you.
Dare to make a difference! By actually reacting to bullies, you are actually affected by them - and that's what fuels them to hurt more people. The kick that they get from people's sufferings are sick and perverted!
Bullying is when people jeer at you. Not criticism. Criticism is when people point certain points for one to improve on. Not when it is personal attacks.
When bullied, never show people that you're affected or hint to them that it's your weakness.
Stand back up and look for support! So what if you cannot find friends who supports you in school? In the school, there's more than 10,000 students. None felt like you? What bullshit. They're all cowards who dared not go against the flow and do what is right.
Having an being a friend of a bullies child makes it easier to face life. It's like you have someone who agrees with you and chats all your insecurities to. You might save another life. Real friends do not judge. They accept who you are and have your back in times of troubles.
If you can't find friends in school, online is fine too! I saw a post about how this lonely man skyped with all his "brothers" and watch soccer together, despite the time zones' differences. Why can't you do that. But it takes higher level of street wise and sense to do that safely.
People chat and share things online. Not demands people to do this or do that. If you face people like this, run!
In life, don't think that having a friend is your honor. It's their honor to have you! This mindset is to protect yourself from being too giving and falling into unnecessary traps set up by perverts to feed on your insecurities. Without them, you won't die.
Once you are sure you have a friend, remember, it's YOUR honor to find true friends too. Don't take them for granted. But still, do not do things that you are not comfortable with, like moving halfway across globe just to see them.
Self-safety is the most important thing.
But baby, where they knock you down and out
Is where you're oughta stay